Category Archives: BDSM

In Which It Occurs To Me That i Have Absolutely No Idea How To Meet Someone…

An ally friend of mine and i were having a conversation the other day.  We talked about a number of subjects, including this relatively new (at least as far as my being conscious of it is concerned) and often uncomfortable … Continue reading

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Quickies: i’m a Mentor?! i’m a Mentor!

Recent developments have occurred… When i went to the party a week and a half or so ago, i met a brand-new-to-BDSM submissive.  She and i talked about a bunch of stuff, and after the play scene that i have … Continue reading

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The Three Magic Words: A Shy Polyamorous Perspective

“i love you.” It’s a simple enough sentence… single-syllable words, subject-verb-object… writing it barely occupies any space at all. But this tiny, seemingly insignificant declarative sentence is one of the most powerful in the English language. It has the ability … Continue reading

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Dip In A Toe? To Hell With That, i’ll Dive Right Back In!

[Writer’s Note: This entry deals with my BDSM proclivities in some detail.  Readers who wish to avoid such content are advised to skip it.  You have been warned.] Last night i went to a play party with some friends, one … Continue reading

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What The Hell Is Wrong With Me?

(Writer’s Note:  This entry deals obliquely with my sex life and BDSM proclivities.  It does not go into much detail, as it’s mostly about my current emotional condition, but those who wish to avoid any such content are advised to … Continue reading

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“Send In The Clowns”

[Writer’s Note: This entry deals obliquely with my sex life and BDSM proclivities.  It doesn’t go into any explicit detail, but you’ve been warned all the same.  Also, it’s very long, so break out the cushion for your computer chair … Continue reading

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So What’s With That Title, Anyway?

Many people have asked me what the title to my blog means… or at least i imagine they would if my blog were not brand new and actually had readers at this point.  In any event, i feel that, instead … Continue reading

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